Wednesday, June 08, 2005

Boys

Is it just me, or teenage guys retarded? I'm tired of being judged based on my height, weight, bra size, or whether or not I will put out. What happened to old school love? To being with someone for who they are, enjoying their company, wanting to be with them day and night? Have we become so wrapped up in the physical that we've forgotten the emotional?

There's so much pressure on teenagers to have sex, that everything we do revolves around sex. You turn on the tv, and there's a half naked woman to advertise toothpaste, turn on the radio, and you hear a couples steamy relationship to advertise condoms, you walk down the street and there are 14 year old girls in tube tops and barely-there skirts. What have we become?

After being with a guy like that for nearly two years, it is such a relief to have a relationship with someone where it's all emotional. We're teenagers, yes hormones are racing... but there is a such thing as self control. I love the little things with my guy, and there's days where I'm content just cuddeling, and sneaking in the odd kiss. How can you have a relationship based on the physical? It never works.

There are a few guys out there who don't think that way, and girls who are accepted although they don't look as if they stepped out of playboy. Kudos to you! We need more people like that in society.

4 comments:

Jenna said...

kudos to you! what a great saying. Kudos....
what does it mean?

kristin janzen said...

hehe, jenna is still typical jenna! sometimes i can't believe the things she says. good blog alysha! eventually boys grow up and unfortunately they don't change all that much :) however, YOU just get smarter and smarter, and you learn to never settle with less than best.

and i'm glad to hear someone else in this family likes country music!

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